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If you're worried about your pet's health, please speak to a vet or qualified professional.

My dog just bit my son. Twice :o(

170 replies

AboardtheAxiom · 11/03/2011 07:15

DS is now terrified and is begging me to take the dog back to the pound.

He hasn't broken the skin (ds had thick pjs on) but he has left a bruised lump on DS's leg. Sad

I can't believe it. DS was just stood watching TV 1st time, 2nd time was sat at the table!

I half to go out at half 8 and need to make a plan.

Dog is barking in kitchen and DS is crying (again) in living room. Sad

OP posts:
unfitmother · 11/03/2011 18:11

You try telling an autistic child that.

LunarRose · 11/03/2011 18:13

GET RID OF THE DOG OUT OF THE HOUSE INSTANTLY

YOUR SON MUST FEEL SAFE IN YOUR HOUSE especially as he is autistic.YOUR priority must be your son.

I was bitten by my dog when I was 11 (stitches to the face) I would have been horrified if the dog stayed in the house find anyone who will take the dog asap even if its a family or friend only temporarly. Fortunately I knew the prompt was that I was ill and smelt differently. the dog went to lovely family (no kids) and as far as I knew never bit again. Yes if it was totally unprompted the dog must be put to sleep.

LessNarkyPuffin · 11/03/2011 18:15

The dog is not staying in the home. The dog was not a good choice for that home. The dog does not need to be killed because of that.

Valhalla, you have a lot more patience than I do.

chickchickchicken · 11/03/2011 18:15

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LessNarkyPuffin · 11/03/2011 18:17

'an agressive dog'

You really don't have a clue do you

WorzselMummage · 11/03/2011 18:17

After being told to fuck off!

Has my message been deleted, I hadn't noticed. How funny.

comewhinewithme · 11/03/2011 18:22

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WorzselMummage · 11/03/2011 18:24

Be careful CWWM, you'll incur the wrath.

comewhinewithme · 11/03/2011 18:27

I know I'm going to go and do my shopping and hide from MN.
I don't actually want to piss anyone off I just think that a child should be safe in their home.

Figgyrolls · 11/03/2011 18:29

I know this sounds stupid and quite frankly doesn't cover the dog biting issue at all, but if you would like some company and don't have an outside have you thought about something slightly smaller and still cuddly like a house rabbit? I have friends who swear by them Smile

Good luck with everything, however it is well known that Valhalla is great with dog issues and I am sure that she will come up with some really good solutions for you if she can.

I think that this little doggy has probably got a good chance of finding somewhere else to live, although he attacked your child he hasn't broken the skin (good,surely) and although your ds will probably take a long time to trust dogs again the initial "attack" could have been far far far worse and he may well find a good home without children. Sadly some dogs don't do well with children but can do well elsewhere, also he may feel jealous of ds because as you say he is your dog. I really hope that Valhalla can help. Sad

DooinMeCleanin · 11/03/2011 18:32

The child is safe. The op has implied she is keeping the dog leashed and stated the child is happy with this situation.

The dog has not bitten anyone. It has snapped. If my dog had been rehomed everytime he snapped at someone during the first few months we had him he would have had an awful lot of homes by now. He has never gone on to to actually cause anyone any harm.

I think the op has enough to feel shit about right now without every clueless other poster jumping on her don't you?

Op - if you want to keep the dog contact an APDT registered trainer. If you feel you can't do this, please take Val up on her offer of help. I know she will her upmost to find your dog a great rescue, who will meet all his training needs and find him an excellent home.

comewhinewithme · 11/03/2011 18:36

The op states in her title "My dog has BIT my son twice"

The child might be unharmed physically, and again only because the op states he had thick pyjamas on (and even then it still left a lump). But as the Op also said the child is terrified so NOT ok.

Do people really put a dog's welfare before a childs? Confused

FuppyGish · 11/03/2011 18:36

Why are people angry at people advocating the dog is PTS? Confused The dog bit a child twice with (according to the op) no provocation. Why wouldn't you have it put to sleep?

Vallhala · 11/03/2011 18:37

There is absolutely no justification in killing this dog. He has nipped - yes, nipped, not bitten, read Dooin's intelligent remark about the difference. He is a young dog, little more than a pup, His strong cross is with a herding breed which are renowned for nipping. The OP is a novice who, respectfully, should never have been allowed to adopt him given her personal and family circumstances. The pound and the dog warden who homechecked her are at fault here.

Remember too that I have spoken to the OP and I have it from her, as she was with her lad at the time and saw the incident, that in her own opinion this was not a bite situation but more of an attempt to herd/seek attention - which, as I said, is very much a characteristic of the breed when young and untrained.

Apart from that, this is what I do, my life's work if you like. I have experience in rehabilitating dogs and work alongside those who do so day in, day out. with magical talent. If it wasn't for the fact that I have 3 dogs of my own I would take in this boy with my children and my cats and other dogs, without hesitation. I'm confident, from what I have learned, that he can be rehabilitated without a fraction of the difficulty which some dogs have presented to rescue and I and who have been turned around nonetheless.

I think that this experience and that of those who I deal with in rescue is just a teeny tiny bit more reliable than that of some of the armchair experts on this thread.

And btw, to the "kill him" brigade, I told you to fuck off. I don't think I've called you names, as has been alleged.

Yet.

LessNarkyPuffin · 11/03/2011 18:38

There's no point in explaining animal behaviour to people who don't care.

comewhinewithme · 11/03/2011 18:40

I do care, about the Op's son and other children the dog may come into contact with in the future.

FuppyGish · 11/03/2011 18:41

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Vallhala · 11/03/2011 18:42

Oh.... and for the record, I wasn't the person who asked for Worszel's name-calling post to be deleted.

Thanks to whoever did, but I hope it wasn't on my account. Contrary to Puffin's belief I have no patience whatsoever but I have a huge drive to instill some common sense and humanity into people, and where I can't do that, at least point out where and why they are so, so wrong.

I work for the dogs, not the owner, not the prospective owner, not for a rescue and not for myself.

FuppyGish · 11/03/2011 18:43

Yes, LessNarky, you're right we just don't care Hmm

Actually I do care deeply for animals, I also care for the people who next home this dog, what about the children the dog comes into contact with then?

Never mind, I'm sure it will be fine. Super-Val has leapt into action and magically cured the dog of all ills!! Hmm

comewhinewithme · 11/03/2011 18:43

So Val, are you calling the OP a liar? Did the dog bite as she said or did he give her ds a playful nip as you would like us to think?

I'd rather listen to the person who was actually there.

YesPleaseDrChristian · 11/03/2011 18:44

What FourfortyFour said

Vallhala · 11/03/2011 18:45

Fuppy, please see my post of 18.37 where I said:

"Remember too that I have spoken to the OP and I have it from her, as she was with her lad at the time and saw the incident, that in her own opinion this was not a bite situation but more of an attempt to herd/seek attention... "

As for why am I so nasty and aggressive? Have you missed the posts where it is being said that this dog should be killed then? Are they not coming up on your computer screen, because they are on mine.

DooinMeCleanin · 11/03/2011 18:46

Fuppy in what way does fostering cats give any insight on canine behaviour? Confused

The dog is a collie or collie x? That explains a lot then.

Imo Collies are not your average family pet. They need dedicated and experienced owners, but they are in no way a dangerous breed.

Vallhala · 11/03/2011 18:46

Comewhine, please see the reply above.

WorzselMummage · 11/03/2011 18:46

Common sense! don't make me laugh.