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The happy Place Café is still open - 2024

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sashh · 02/01/2024 04:44

Morning.

I'm just starting this before the last one fills up.

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MinnieMountain · 15/02/2024 07:45

Omelette Arnold Bennett and a martini @ScottBakula ? Sorry to hear you’re having a shit time.

Honestly @sashh DS doesn’t like custard either. If I hadn’t seen him come out, I’d swear he was changed at birth.

Tilllly · 15/02/2024 07:55

You not well @sashh?

sashh · 16/02/2024 01:46

Morning.

I'm still not doing too well so either give orders to F and F or you are welcome to cook yourselves.

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PeopleAreWeird · 16/02/2024 02:48

Hope you feel abit brighter soon !!!

Its a warm morning so i will take a milky coffee outside under some twinkle lights

ScottBakula · 16/02/2024 06:26

I hope you get better soon @sashh .
I have asked Florence to make some crumpets and pikeletts . I am going g to have some with marmite on . ( don't worry sashh I will clean every trace of gloop up )

>> leaves a brolly near @PeopleAreWeird <<
lts raining here.

MinnieMountain · 16/02/2024 06:51

I hope you feel better soon soon @sashh .

Marmite you say @ScottBakula ? I’ll join you for crumpets.

ScottBakula · 16/02/2024 12:58

@MinnieMountain shhhh don't say it to loud there are some haters in here.
But there are all things marmitey in that little cupboard, squeezey, XO , low salt , flatbreads, crisps, rice cakes and peanut butter 😋

MinnieMountain · 16/02/2024 14:09

Hopefully our lovely person who runs the cafe (see, I didn’t tag her) is napping @ScottBakula . I’m not as obsessed as you but it definitely goes well on crumpets.

Tilllly · 16/02/2024 22:22

On crumpets yes, with a little cheese on top too

sashh · 17/02/2024 02:15

Morning.

@Tilllly could you mind the shop today?

I still have lurgy, fever, headache, sore throat.

I'll sit in the petting zoo.

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Tilllly · 17/02/2024 04:12

Of course Sashh, will have some water, blanket, strepsils, tissues, heatpack and fruit brought down to you
Leo is up here by the fire pit eating cherries so he won't bother you

I've asked Florence to do French toast, crumpets and pikelets for breakfast, with various toppings
Marmite (obviously) cheese, butter and cherry jam - let her know if you want something else on
Plus a big fruit salad with melons, blueberries, pineapple, kiwi, cherries and oranges
There's various flavoured yoghurt if you want it

MinnieMountain · 17/02/2024 04:43

Morning
Could I have French toast and berries please @Tilllly . And I nice big coffee.

Typically I’ve woken up stupidly early the day I’m visiting an old friend for the first time in ages. She’ll get fuzzy Minnie.

I hope you feel better soon @sashh . My cat is in a cuddly mood. I’ll send her down to the zoo to purr on you.

Tilllly · 17/02/2024 05:52

Hope you have another hour or two @MinnieMountain

sashh · 17/02/2024 05:55

@MinnieMountain IRL I have a little furry bundle purring on me.

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Tilllly · 17/02/2024 06:44

Always a comfort @sashh

sashh · 18/02/2024 00:40

Morning.

Still running hot and cold so you guys are in charge.

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lovinglaughingliving · 18/02/2024 00:51

Sorry I've been away in the Big Smoke with DS6 and returned home v v weary last night, but we had a great time!
In other news, I have a new job - yay! Just need to negotiate my notice period from my old job (they're total knobs who suspended me last year even though they had ZERO evidence and i had done nothing wrong and they put me through THREE months of sheer hell where they cut my off from everyone then just expected me to go back with 4 days notice, no phased return etc and I haven't had so much as an apology!!!) I've tried going back, lasted 3 days and my mental health fell off a cliff. They won't let me have any reasonable adjustments for my ASD despite me asking and asking.
So I just want to go now, but knowing what I know, I doubt they will make it easy for me.
Let's wait and see.

Tilllly · 18/02/2024 01:30

@lovinglaughingliving that sounds awful!
Am glad you have a new job!

ScottBakula · 18/02/2024 04:51

@sashh i hope your feeling better today.

@lovinglaughingliving that sounds really crap, I hope you get out without to much hassle. Do you have any holiday left that you could use to work your notice?
Good luck with your new job .

On Tuesday I got told I was been made redundant, it was completely out of the blue I am really struggling to get my head around it.

I have to start looking for a new job , writing cvs and cover letters, something I have not done for about 20 years .

I need a big fry up and coffee so there is alsorts of sausages , black pudding, beans , tomatoes, bacon , eggs which ever way you like them , fried mushrooms , hash browns, toast and of course tea and coffee.

Fernando is making me a large whisky mac while my pint of Guinness is settling.

Tilllly · 18/02/2024 05:23

Thanks for sorting breakfast @ScottBakula
(Can't believe @sashh left me in charge and I actually slept...) That sounds like just what I need, tho I'll skip the black pudding

I'm so sorry to hear about the redundancy, what an awful shock
How long will the payment cushion you?
Make sure you go to job centre plus - there might be benefits

ScottBakula · 18/02/2024 06:07

@Tilllly , that means more black pudding for me , I can live with that !

I don't know how much my pay out will be yet , it's complicated as I have been in the industry for 12 years , I have been Tupe'd four times ( Inc to this new shower of shite less than a month ago that are making me redundant) and my contract has changed drastically 4 times but my contract hasn't change at the same time as I have been Tupe'd, its been changed months / years into the take over.
Somehow I have to remember all them dates !

The new company have told me I can't take time off work as they need me to cover other staff , that is my job , I cover staff when they are off so how the hell will they do it when I'm gone .

ARGGGG.

My union are looking into it and yes you are right I need to get to the jobcentre to see if they can help with any benefits, cv , cover letter and anything else.

Tilllly · 18/02/2024 06:45

Thank God you're in the union

Hold out for as much money as you can get - they might cave just to get rid of you

Spk to HR about a reference too

Job centre plus - you need an appointment usually, but they're actually pretty good with redundancy apparently

Go asap, I don't think benefits get backdated
And whilst you're unemployed, look at what else you can get, I dunno, prescriptions, bus pass etc

Tilllly · 18/02/2024 06:47

www.acas.org.uk

Don't underestimate how much help acas can be

sashh · 18/02/2024 08:37

Wow this cafe is becoming a job hunter / HR resource centre.

Thanks for keeping this going guys, I really am not well.

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Tilllly · 18/02/2024 17:53

Are you no better @sashh ?

Time to see doctor?

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