Omar always says he's not abusive or controlling, but what he does is sulks if Rhianna doesn't conform to what he wants. It's a different way of exerting control. He sulks [goes weird in her words], she appeases, he reluctantly comes round but reinforces: 'Fix up'. Rhianna reacts to his 'going weird' by running to someone else and sobbing. Toxic pair.
I still can't stand Twinks but agree with you all that the others are hypocrites with their reactions to what she didn't do and others did.
ETA: Could Kate Lawler have chosen a worse top to go with her gold pants on Group Chat? No.