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The Other Bennet Sister starts tonight on BBC1 8pm

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IwantToRetire · 15/03/2026 19:31

Seemingly unremarkable and often overlooked, Mary Bennet longs to win her family’s approval.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002qkp3

Is this going to be a spoof or some sort of spin off ?

2nd episode tonight at 8:30

Couldn't see a thread so hope this isn't a duplicate!

BBC One - The Other Bennet Sister, Series 1, Chapter 1

Mary Bennet hopes to win her family’s approval at her first ball.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002qkp3

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LIZS · 20/05/2026 08:08

You can vote for this on the NTA awards.

MimiGC · 21/05/2026 14:12

I’ve just watched the whole series for a second time and enjoyed it just as much. I wanted my DD to see it, as she aspires to be an actor. We both agreed that the acting was superb - both the main characters and the minor ones were first class.

ConstanzeMozart · 22/05/2026 19:21

DappledThings · 19/05/2026 22:07

On episode 6 and mostly enjoying it.

But why does Mary have to be introduced to her cousins, the Gardiner children. Has she never met them? That seems very odd. Similarly when Mr Ryder arrives at Pemberley and says he is visiting his aunt it's weird that Lizzie doesn't seem surprised her husband has a cousin she has not only never met but apparently never heard of.

Maybe branches of families were more commonly not in touch back then. There might have been complicated class issues and snobbery, even within families, where the ‘posh lot’ didn’t like to acknowledge the ‘country cousins’ or embarrassingly poor branches. And I guess communication might have been less frequent and instant - back then people couldn’t so easily pop to London and back to the Hampshire countryside etc to visit people. And obviously there were no phones or FaceTime or anything!

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 22/05/2026 21:35

When I read the book, I couldn’t get over the fact that the Gardiners appear to have gone to Longboirn for Xmas without their children

pinotnow · 22/05/2026 22:09

They don't bother taking them to the Lake District either!

ConstanzeMozart · Yesterday 08:10

pinotnow · 22/05/2026 22:09

They don't bother taking them to the Lake District either!

I think in those days and probably in their social class, it was perfectly normal for people not to spend much time with their children. I think it was common until fairly recently for children to be looked after by a nanny, eat separately and e.g. be brought downstairs to say good night to their parents sounds good to me

Girliefriendlikespuppies · Yesterday 08:14

The Gardiners and their kids definitely rock up in Pride and Prejudice and leave their kids at Longbourne while they take Lizzie on holiday! Mary definitely would know who they are so pp makes a good point.

MimiGC · Yesterday 10:03

Girliefriendlikespuppies · Yesterday 08:14

The Gardiners and their kids definitely rock up in Pride and Prejudice and leave their kids at Longbourne while they take Lizzie on holiday! Mary definitely would know who they are so pp makes a good point.

She would have known them as cousins (though maybe not seen a great deal of them). I took that scene -where the children introduce themselves - to be a formal way of acknowledging their new relationship together as governess and pupils. Their mother was there to make sure it was done politely and in the correct manner.

upinaballoon · Yesterday 21:13

ConstanzeMozart · 22/05/2026 19:21

Maybe branches of families were more commonly not in touch back then. There might have been complicated class issues and snobbery, even within families, where the ‘posh lot’ didn’t like to acknowledge the ‘country cousins’ or embarrassingly poor branches. And I guess communication might have been less frequent and instant - back then people couldn’t so easily pop to London and back to the Hampshire countryside etc to visit people. And obviously there were no phones or FaceTime or anything!

In 'Pride and Prejudice' the Gardiners and Bennets seemed to be on very good terms, and 'The Other Bennet Sister' is partly a follow-on.

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