Thanks @Shellingbynight for that rundown! (at 22.08.) Makes sense that DeeDee feels Ollie is moving far too quickly. Reminds me of a bloke I was dating at around the age of 19-20... We started dating in the mid September, and saw each other twice a week, and I quite liked him, and he liked me. All good (still both lived with our parents..)
Along comes early December, and I'd been dating him for 2 and a half months, and he was asking me to come to his family's home - for not only Christmas lunch (on Christmas day,) but also to stay, from Christmas Eve morning to Boxing Day afternoon. (With his mum, his dad, and his brother!) I barely knew them. 😆 I'd only been dating him for about 10 weeks. Like heck was I staying for 3 days all over Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and Boxing Day.
We were only 19-20, and I really loved Christmas, and I loved it with my family. Mum, dad, and brother, and aunts and uncles and cousins and grandparents ... We all lived within 2 miles of each other, (most of us within a mile,) and we all saw each other over Christmas Day and Boxing Day. Met up at the local social club, and popped into each others homes. (It was a bit like Corrie!) 😆
This boyfriend lived 8-9 miles away, and I wanted to be near my family at Christmas, and not with his for 3 days. They were pleasant enough, but I didn't really know them, and I would have felt so uncomfortable. He had a small house too, so it's not like we had our own private quarters somewhere! 8-9 miles away seemed really far away when all my family and friends and job and everything was within 2 miles. I couldn't drive then, and buses were infrequent, (to where this bloke lived,) and there were none on Christmas Day and Boxing Day!
Went off on a tangent there sorry. This Corrie storyline just reminds me of that. He was proper miffed that I turned down staying with his family, and got all sniffy and arsey with me. So I said 'I can't be arsed with this. I'm done' and I ended it. Too intense. 😬 And he didn't like being told 'no.' 🔺
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