I find it very strange that some people think their dead loved ones do things like watching their daughter performing on TV or watch their every single move, which they wouldn't have done in real life, but of course bereaved people should find comfort wherever we can.
I think it was they way Motsi said it. I hope that prior to making such a comment she checked with Balvinder that Balvinder is one of the people who find it comforting, not someone like me who would have been livid had such a remark been made to me.