This chimes hugely with the cultural differences between the Dutch and other nations I'm aware of and the comments about the instability of Joost that were well known about in the Dutch music industry.
When you have people who knew him saying they were unsure he would be able to cope with the pressure, it's difficult to dismiss it as purely a misunderstanding.
Equally the Dutch are very blunt and often interpreted as rude by other nationality even if that is not the intention.
Then there's the pressure cooker and control of the EBU and Eurovision which I've also been previously told of.
There are massive questions about how duty of care and how much harassment was going on backstage and how the EBU were clearly not on top of issues from the beginning for all national teams and representatives.
The pressure put on artist about Palestine/Israel added a layer not previously there and it seems like the press conference was the final straw.
It was said between the conference and the incident that no one wanted to be in the room with Israel for the conference they thought it was a recipe for disaster. Many felt if they didn't hit the right tone it could come back to haunt them. It was a tinderbox.
Joost noticing how Israel was being protected when perhaps all the other artists felt they weren't being and that their feelings (and potentially contracts) were being ignored was one of the final straws. It's hard to argue that there were not various issues with harassment from a number of parties.
I don't think the issue of Israel's participation is completely separate. It's a contributing factor to context even though the Israeli delegation may not have been directly involved in specific incidents. There was clearly goady behaviour (probably on both sides) that has been going on for two weeks which no one has managed well / challenged as being unacceptable.
It is notable that Israeli news has confirmed that Eden Golan's stylist WAS removed from the arena after filming the Irish, Swiss and Greek contestants without their consent (these were the three who didn't appear for the flag ceremony for the Saturday matinee so that strikes me as the timeline and this was AFTER the Joost disqualification and it becoming apparent what the reason was)
It should not have happened. Joost probably was in the wrong but I also think that the production team and EBU hold a lot of responsibility for not calming issues and looking after artist from the very start. They inflamed an already difficult situation. They were too focused on stopping all Eden Golan's protection.
There could have been a stepping back from the edge with a meeting between the Dutch and the EBU / Production. The EBU didn't do this. They could have argued innocent until proven guilty and then regrouped for next year and used other sanctions against the Dutch. They chose not to. This probably doesn't help anyone. The camera woman is now wanting to keep anonymity which may be difficult in the long run. It makes the EBU look bad. It could affect Joost personally though he will probably bounce back and given his career is mainly in the Netherlands is unlikely to harm him. Indeed the EBU have effectively created a martyr rather than dealing with the issue.
And there are ramifications for next year's Dutch participation.
It's an incident which isnt going away and even with strict Swedish laws and the possibility that the incident was more serious, I don't think it will reach an outcome that really in the long term is good for the camera woman, Joost, The EBU or The Netherlands or indeed Israel. It's just one great big farce and a total failure of people management throughout the duration of the contest.
It's a total shit show and quite honestly I hope that this doesn't all get pinned on Joost even if he did act aggressively in an unacceptable way. There are pile of others who need to take some responsibility for their own part in the sorry saga. I don't think it's an isolated incident. It's part of a build up of issues that have not been appropriately dealt with over the course of some time.