MAFS OZ UK pace 3 (no spoilers) - speaking our truths, there's no socks in our shoes

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Bracing myself for the dinner party tonight!

How many times do you reckon the term “butt dial” was used in that episode?

I loved Sandy telling Harrison to shush!
I also laughed at Ollie talking to the producers and pulling the 'I wasn't there. I won't tell,' with the fake Godfather accent

I'm really struggling to warm to any of these lot, like last season. Too many Instafame huns now, and it's lost it's charm for me.

I liked Evelyn when she was nice to Rupert even tho he was a wet mess. She gave him a chance to grow on her.
And she is being awesome with Dan who is horrid. I can understand Sandy not quitting yet as she’s turned away from her family. But I hope she sees sense.

I love her.

Bearing in mind the boys knew what Dan had said ,including Ollie and Hugo, none of them said anything to back Sandy up.

They all just sat there. The women are the only ones who have the guts to call out shitty behaviour.

Do.you think Dan knows how things on top.he is going. I hope he watches this back and sees himself how he actually looks.
Also I'm calling it now he is going to aya leave on Monday. He can't risk Sandy dumping him first, so he is trying to convince her to stay.

Things=thin

Rupert is far too wet for Evelyn. Who would you all put her with out of all the men in the show?

Duncan has always seemed too good to be true, basically because he looks like he models for a knitting pattern company. He could easily go on the front cover of Mills and Boon books. He just seems really really nice and I don't want him to turn out to be a bastard but I'm wondering now whether he will. After all, we didn't really suspect Dan was that bad.

I think you'd have to be a really strong character to stand up to Harrison and Dan. It's easier for the women to do that in a way because they are not friends with them. It's very difficult if you've gone out drinking with somebody and shared your experiences to then tell everyone on national TV what the other person said. The time for them to say something really when it happens, in the bar, but I don't think most of the men there have the guts to do that.

Dammit! I’ve just looked up Evelyn on Insta and found all their pages.
Don’t look if you don’t want spoilers!

I love Layton’s shocked face 😆

Arrgh thanks for the warning!

Ilooked her up and can’t find any spoilers .

I don't agree ! I think they've edited it to look like he's some jittery nervous nerd - he's a good looking guy and he went into this with no support from family - I'd say that takes a certain type of character.

Evelyn is just so bloody beautiful he was flustered. And she proves she's not just a pretty face . That must be quite intimidating!

There aren’t any on her page but the others are all linked below - and there are lots of spoilers on the pages of the others.

I have been following along and loving all your opinions.

Heres a few of mine -

Bronte the step-ford housewife didnt say a single word the whole dinner party, however she did look to enjoy the drama but also at one point she looked as if she was so over it.

Sandy, my heart breaks for her and honestly i think alot of what dickhead dan said was glossed over and she is waaaaaaay to good for him and would be much better suited to hunky Duncan (their babies 😍😍) also no one else notice how badly it was edited tonight? Sandy had a lip stick mark on her cheek that kept appearing and disappearing?

Mel & her man i am really warming too.

Jessie and claire i really hope they can move on and make a good go of things as they are the sweetest and seem to bring out the best in each other. Yes i know he wasnt very nice at the start but he has grown so much and become more open minded to what claire is into.

Tayla is a right self centered little cow. I wonder was she an only child?? She needs a good few home truths telling to her

Evelyn well what can i say she is just amazing & beautiful. I find it hard to believe she struggled on the 'outside' to find a partner

Dan sure has a lot of confidence for a man with that hair! He’s vile, the rage on his face when challenged by Queen Evelyn! Loved Jesses and Layton’s shocked faces throughout they are all of us 😂

He has had the worst edit. He clearly isn't like that all the time or she would be doing a Dan and be out of the apartment for 7 hours a day 😄

I've really noticed the editing this time.

The bowl of prawns at the lunch with Cam and Lyndall that kept miraculously filling and emptying! Also clips of Harrison reacting to Adam and Janelle at the commitment ceremony with Janelle clearly sitting beside him.

I didn't notice the Harrison sat next to Janelle it doesn't surprise me though the editing is hilarious.

They constantly do the long drawn out silences, but it's obvious the person the camera is on who is apparently unable to speak, is actually listening to what someone else is saying.

And the food and drinks emptying and refilling is constant.

I did enjoy the edit of Dan darting his head around staring at everyone through.

I don't understand how Sandy can still have feelings for Dan. I suppose she has put so much on the line to be there, and as she said, in her culture you do your very best to make a marriage work. I hope she isn't taken in by the bullshit speech he gave her about wanting to make it better. (his hand on her kneee...ewww)

It's like him and Harrison have learnt a script with all the right things to say when they've been caught out being complete shits, but the lack of sincerity is cringe making.

I don't know why Hugo doesn't call Tayla out on all her crap instead of just sitting there with his mouth hanging open. I can't see one redeeming feature in her.

Evelyn is an absolute goddess!

Having dated someone like Dan a long, long time ago, I understand where Sandy is. She's inherently honest so she thinks if Dan wants out, he'd just say. She doesn't understand what someone would get out of acting like a dick, then lying to say they're fully committed and genuinely sorry. So she assumes he must be sorry, he must want to try and the bad behaviour is just a blip along the way.
Dan is also manipulative enough to press all her buttons that make him seem reasonable just enough to keep her there. Then he dominates the conversation and she's left feeling her 'reasonable demands' are somehow extreme. What she doesn't realise is that the problems are all his; they have no shared common values so she can't work from a basis of him having any depth or honesty or principle or respect.

Dan really need my to look in the mirror. He said to Sandy that if he spent as much time in the gym as she does watching tv, he be ‘shredded’.
It’s a shame Sandy didn’t respond by saying something like “but Dan, you do spend 6 or 7 hours a day exercising, so why aren’t you shredded?

Dan isn’t athletic looking, I wouldn’t say he looks particularly fit even. He also has a big wide nose and a bald patch! He’s no Brad Pitt. And he thinks he’s too good for Sandy.

Id imagine all the women in Dan’s life have been emotionally bullied or manipulated by him. His girl mate Georgia seemed like an arsehole too, which shows the company he keeps.