It’s very clear she won’t be choosing Martin. I think she’s deluded herself into thinking Shaq will be begging for her to come back to him. But he isn’t. She doesn’t want to pie Martin and then graft to win Shaq around. Probs thinks it will be bad for her ‘image’.
She mentioned Shaqs red flags (or some similar term) in the morning chat - trying to set up her expectation that she wants him to win her back.
Olivia is operating in a similar way. Simply don’t acknowledge you were in the wrong, as that would look bad. Say it’s Kai who is bad enough times and it will become true.