Love is Blind - Season 3 starting 19 Oct on Netflix

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"Love Is Blind season 3 premieres with the first four episodes on Wednesday (Oct. 19) at 3 a.m. ET.

Episodes 5-7 will drop Oct. 26, episodes 8-10 will come out Nov. 2, and the finale and reunion is scheduled for Nov. 9."

I'm really going to try not to binge the first four in one sitting 😂

I cannot stand Bartise. His abortion talk showed how immature he is. I hate it when people say “I will love and care for my child no matter what”. Easy to fucking say when you DON’T have the life of caring for a disabled child FR. Nancy was incredibly articulate when she explained her view point. I really like her, she’s so far out of Bartise’s League.

@PoundShopPrincess nah! I was a bit 😮 to be honest - I mean the folks they don’t date are essentially acquaintances. I’d be quite pissed off if my fiancé was telling someone they don’t really know, let alone a TV audience that I was terrible in bed until they taught me what to do!

I think Cole said something afterwards about her being a bit weird.

Alexa only wears clothes once? How rich (and stupid) is she?

So so much....
Zaynab'sn(Zanab?) mum (separated from her dad) "I believe marriage is for life" 🙄
Nancy and Alexa both need decent prenups...
Nancy crying to Andrew! WEIRD....of all the people to spill it all out to, so awk.
OMG Alexa telling Bartise about their bedroom antics!

Raven sounds like she wanted to marry up...wtf would he pay half rent on somewhere he isn't living? Run away SK! She won't support your ambition 😫At the same time I think SK was wrong to go on this knowing he would have to be at uni for the next 2 years so couldn't compromise on location.

When a couple finds out in the pods there is an age gap (with the women older) why didn't they discuss children in a bit more depth then? It was a good conversation for Nancy and Bart (yes...I'm bringing him down to that level) to have but for it to come up at the family table was a no, family pressure is a no no.

As much as I'm not keen on Colleen I can see Matt's got bunting for days....🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

ALEXA'S STEPMOM!! What the? Crikey...I'd be uncomfortable with that but Alexa clearly doesn't give a crap which is awesome. There's some money in that family, not sure they'll think cowboy is good enough, I mean he only drives an suv...at least he has wheels!

So so much....
Zaynab'sn(Zanab?) mum (separated from her dad) "I believe marriage is for life"

I think that was Nancy's mum. Zanab's parents are both dead.

But it's also easy to say if you have experience of caring for a child with disabilities or a family member with DS. Bartiste's position isn't that unusual. Lots of people don't agree with aborting DCs just because they may have DS.

My friend's DD has DS and my DB worked in a school for DCs with disabilities. They'd both have been very annoyed if a speech therapist working with them decided the DCs' and their families' lives were all sadness and difficulties.

It's fine for Nancy to decide she doesn't want to do it. That doesn't make her position more mature. There is nothing immature about choosing to have and love a DC with disabilities. It's very ableist to imply otherwise.

Cole's flat. Urgh. Zanab run

No, Nancy has first hand experience of what life is like with a disabled child and has stated she wouldn’t like that to be her. That’s fuck all to do with anyone else or their choices, and is no way ableist. I think it’s very mature because it’s an informed decision rather than an abstract statement of “I’d love my child whatever” without and further deep thought.

Agree. It’s not “more mature” for Nancy to have the view she does. It’s just one that the poster sides with. Neither Nancy nor Bartise are in the wrong for their view. Bartise is immature for how it was brought up, however pinch of salt with that (editing, producing etc).

Personally I think it’s immature to rhyme off some Hallmark card load of sentimental fluff as opposed to think about a situation critically but that’s just my opinion 🤷‍♀️

Pp didn't say Nancy had a more mature view point, but that Bartise's view was immature. And it was. He's 26 and can barely stop looking at himself in the mirror long enough to hold a conversation, it means nothing that he says he will look after the child no matter what. He doesn't know anything about it.

Nancy's point was that she'd gone home crying after watching families torn apart and husbands who had checked out of parenting because it's too difficult. She knows that she'll be left holding the baby literally and has made a reasoned mature stance based on her knowledge of disabilities and herself. The pp said Nancy was articulate. Which I don't think you can disagree with. I think she was also trying to explain to Bartise that she has a time line, because he apparently had no idea that women aren't fertile forever or have more risks as they go on.

So he'd muck her around for years push up the risk and then push her not to abort and probably leave anyway or be in the gym instead of helping his wife with their child

Yes exactly. I thought Bartise had quite an arrogant air in the way he spoke and I silently raged that a woman six years his senior who works with many children with many difficulties was mansplained to by a self obsessed man who doesn’t even know that a woman’s biological clock runs out the older she gets.

I feel like Nancy had A LOT she wants to say that she holds in.

Oh absolutely.

Completely agree with the comment that Nancy holds back as well.

I kind of despair that someone as great and together and pretty as Nancy is on the show, and holding on to this self obsessed man child.
Have her options been so bad in real life?

Yes exactly, she is also clearly wealthy, as well as smart and young and beautiful, does she need to stoop to dating show levels?

I think her clock is ticking pretty hard so she's convinced herself that he's worth fighting for.

This could be a Deepti and Shake situation.

It was revealed when Deepti turned Shake down that nearly every cast member had approached her with concern, but she didn't really show it before the wedding

On ep6 but wtf Bartise's opinions on abortion 😒

I'd be amazed if any of these go down the aisle, let alone stay together beyond the show.

Bartise isn't right for Nancy, it's so sad witnessing how hurt she feels. She's very pretty, and such a warm, lovely personality - how can the feelings be so unbalanced?! I agree with her abortion stance, but whatever your position the fact he raised it with his family in front of her only confirms his immaturity.

Matt is totally insecure, to the point of controlling, aggressive. Yes it clearly comes from a genuine and understandable place. Not Colleen's problem. I think Colleen enjoyed his devotion at first but it'll kill things off.

The others just seem totally mismatched!

I was struck by how odd so many of the families are, as usual with these shows. Nancy's weirdo staring brothers, Alexa's cocky family, Raven's smirking friend, Zaynub's stepmom asking Cole about his parents' faith. Why are they so often looking for the awkward angle instead just being friendly and reassuring with their new in-law? It's SO weird! You never see that kind of intense interaction IRL!

Nancy wasn't being ableist and I didn't say she was. She didn't call Bartiste immature for saying he would love a child with DS or other disabilities. No-one here knows what experience Bartiste or his family may or may not have with DCs with additional needs or DS.
I was challenging the ableist views from posters on here who were very quick to dismiss as immature an attitude that families love their DCs with disabilities and that families choose to proceed with pregnancies even when there is a high likelihood of DS. And that those families are happy with that decision and their DCs have happy lives and bring great joy to them, the same as other DCs do.

Without weighing in I do think abortion is a really polarising debate, especially in the US.

It's clearly a very divided issue and I'm not sure a marriage would be successful if either had strong opposing views either way.

I was challenging the ableist views from posters on here who were very quick to dismiss as immature an attitude that families love their DCs with disabilities and that families choose to proceed with pregnancies even when there is a high likelihood of DS

Well you’re just making things up now because nobody has said that. At all.

I said that I find Bartise immature because he just spouts some sentimental fluff rather than approaching it with critical thinking or even attempting to see Nancy’s side. He doesn’t know the basics of female biology but thinks he has a right-on view about abortion. The arrogance and immaturity are astounding.

I NEVER mentioned other families, YOU mentioned that. And for some reason are meaning out that I brought other families into this

Ah you're right, I get them a bit confused and I don't know why...I mean surely I can tell by which twit they're with!

I don't like Zanab at all. She seems to be constantly looking for faults.

Cole's flat is filthy and he's clearly not into Zanab and wasting both their time.

Alexa is a wierd, sex mad, rich kid.

Matt is controlling - run colleen run!