@NurseButtercup
Yes, I saw Aurora's face, but who I'm confused about the woman Raikes was seated next to, who was she??
I think it was a niece? And I think her face wasn't jealousy, it was concern that Raikes was trying to entice the girl to fall in love with him. Aurora wouldn't consider him 'suitable' for her niece and IIRC she's also seen him 'paying court' to Marian.
I just had a thought who decides which women have a debut ball? I'm assuming Marian didn't have one? From what I can see, Agnes & Ada aren't making any attempt to find a husband for Marian - presumably because she's penniless. So does that mean, in Agnes's eyes, that Marian is destined to be a spinster??
I think whoever wanted to give a 'debut ball' could do so. It would be who accepted the invitations that was the deciding factor. That's why Bertha held off on Gladys' until Gladys made friends with Mrs Astor's daughter AND Bertha got 'in' with McAllister. Bertha now feels confident that her invitations will be accepted by the 'top tier' of society.
I think Marian's lack of a ball is due to a lack of finances to throw a 'top tier worthy' ball. If Agnes can't do it 'right', she's not going to do it at all.
As far as Marian ending as a spinster, Agnes may think that Marian isn't 'worth the cost' of finding her a husband. She obviously didn't try to find Ada a husband in her younger years. It's also been made clear that Agnes married strictly for money and was very unhappy. Maybe she thinks that being a spinster 'of adequate means' is better than a marriage of convenience. Or she may think of Marian as the niece who will take care of her and Ada in their old age in repayment for a home, then presumably be the 'on call' auntie for Oscar's children. What other choice would a 'distressed gentlewoman' have back then?