Love Island 13 - When Movie Night becomes Fight Night

[AngeloMysterioso]

RUN TEDDY, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE

@Didiusfalco well it did one job for me, and thats to probably quit watching it - it feels like the fun is over ... contestants have learned from previous seasons how to behave to win/get sponsorship deals. That doesn't make great reality TV though, so clearly producers trying to rile them up as much as they can. That cruel aspect of the show became more visible this season than ever and it feels extremely careless after what happened with CF.

Faye spiralled and was abusive, but I genuinely think the producers have a duty of care and have to step in when someone is losing control like this.

@mrsrobin Faye reminds me of someone with emotional unstable personality disorder ! The anger , the insecurities her emotions all over the place I wouldn't mind betting she didn't mean half of what she said

Its pretty shocking that anyone could approve Faye's behaviour and even worse .. hold Teddy responsible for that behaviour .. I think perhaps victim blaming is a bigger issue than we realise ... no wonder abused people struggle to leave abusers when you have people telling them they are to blame and its their fault .. if only you had walked away from the abuser ...

Im disgusted tbh 🌸

Yeah I would, what difference does it make if it's a man or a woman If someone is upset and livid like she was and they told you to walk away, you walk away.

I walk away from my partner when I'm livid. Then when I've calmed down, we talk. Its what a lot of adults do.

So if a women is thumped by a male as a result of not walking away, she deserved it, is what you're saying right?

Teddy is to blame for not walking away? Right...

@JacquelineCarlyle

Not saying she was mature but I don't see any of them as mature *@hyperbole001*

As I said below, I'm happy to agree to disagree as I have a different viewpoint to you.

Your viewpoint is to blame the victim.

I'm not holding Teddy responsible for Faye's behaviour nor have I referenced anyone being thumped - what a weird turn for the thread based on what I said?!

@hyperbole001 I disagree - to be honest , you seem abusive based on this thread. I've asked respectfully that we agree to disagree but as you disagree with what I've said, you're escalating and making more and more wild accusations.

@JacquelineCarlyle

She was upset and vocal and asked him to walk away and when he didn't she continued to shout.

Yes... you did blame Teddy

@JacquelineCarlyle

I'm not holding Teddy responsible for Faye's behaviour nor have I referenced anyone being thumped - what a weird turn for the thread based on what I said?!

"Goodness, I feel like I'm watching a different show to everyone else - I don't think Faye did anything wrong. Teddy deliberately lied to her and she's not accepting that. Fair play to her."

LOL

I didn't blame Teddy, I've just not put Faye into the evil villain role.

@JacquelineCarlyle

She was upset and angry and asked him to leave her alone but he didn't, so she ended up shouting. I really don't think Faye has done anything wrong. She's upset and emotional and needed space to calm down, which she wasn't given do continues to shout.

Blaming Teddy again ... 🙁

[quote JacquelineCarlyle]@hyperbole001 I disagree - to be honest , you seem abusive based on this thread. I've asked respectfully that we agree to disagree but as you disagree with what I've said, you're escalating and making more and more wild accusations. [/quote]
You were victim shaming. And now you're back-pedalling.

Not just back peddling attempting to gaslight you @hyperbole001 and act like you’re unreasonable for suggestive dates abusive bullying belittling behaviour is out of order

Bloody hell, neither of you seem to be able to take someone disagreeing with you! I won't be bullied into agreeing, so not sure why you're continuing when I've said we'll have to agree to disagree!

Happy to discuss and debate but at the end of the day, it's Love Island. Fluff TV that I enjoy!

@JacquelineCarlyle

I didn't blame Teddy, I've just not put Faye into the evil villain role.

You actually typed "fair play to her".

How anybody could comfortably watch what unfolded tonight and think "fair play, Faye!" is beyond me.

You also posted GO FAYE so yeah victim blaming right there

I guess I'll be beyond you then

@JacquelineCarlyle

Bloody hell, neither of you seem to be able to take someone disagreeing with you! I won't be bullied into agreeing, so not sure why you're continuing when I've said we'll have to agree to disagree!

Happy to discuss and debate but at the end of the day, it's Love Island. Fluff TV that I enjoy!

Nowhere on earth would approving of that behaviour and blaming the victim for that behaviour would that be considered a difference of opinion.. 😕

I think right now it's a difference of opinion but as seems to be the way these days, rather than accept that difference, I'm being shouted down to make me either agree with you or shut up.

To be honest, I'm happy to let you win as I'll go to bed soon, so that means I'll shut up. Doesn't mean I agree.

Good night.

O’Ha nd I don’t care if you disagree but if you continue to post bullshit excuse making and victim blaming then yes I’ll continue to call you out for it. Ok hun

@Blamelesscars

O’Ha nd I don’t care if you disagree but if you continue to post bullshit excuse making and victim blaming then yes I’ll continue to call you out for it. Ok hun

yip 🌸

Chloe was excellent today. She was the only one who cared about Liberty and offered sensible advice.

Faye was a disgrace. How can anyone think they can shout and belittle people, get abusive, turn to rage, and it's ok. It made me feel ill to watch and needed a trigger warning for anyone who's experienced that themselves. My bf watched it, he's been in the police 10 years, and said she is going to physically hurt a partner one day, if she hasn't already - her eyes were dead and flat the entire time. He's seen it before in domestic abusers. The light just goes out of their eyes when the rage hits. This isn't previous hurt/insecurities - this is a scary woman. Maybe this is why the producers are trying to orchestrate her leaving - this may not be the only time she's done this or other islanders have complained.

I feel her story of insecurities/vulnerabilities is a convenient cover she raised at the start - a ready made excuse in case she ever revealed this side of herself. She'll roll it out now. The kind of person who blames you for abusing you - teddy's behaviour made her react this way. That's actually what she said. I doubt this will be an epiphany- I thought the last time might have been. But she knows this side to her, she's self aware - if it really bothered her she would be trying to work on it. Not starting her 'journey' on LI.

Teddy doesn't seem strong enough to walk away. He seems to be the kind of person who wants to fix her. That his love and loyalty will do it. I hope the boys talk him out of it. I worry about his MH more than hers. He's caught in this toxic head fuck and doesn't have friends and family who can help him.

@ExpectingToFly

I feel sorry for Faye, she's like a rat in a cage and that film of Teddy has triggered so much hurt for her.. I know her behaviour isn't good, it's tough to watch but I feel for her. Sorry not very good at articulating myself

No it's not the film of Teddy that's triggered her - it's the film of her and Sam. She feels guilty and embarrassed so has gone on the offensive.

This used to be me and I've spent a lot of time working on myself to change.

(Just watched on catch up!)

Just watched on catch up. Faye was horrible. Agree with PPs that if it'd been a bloke being as aggressive they'd have been removed most likely.

@IsabellesMissingSock

Just watched on catch up. Faye was horrible. Agree with PPs that if it'd been a bloke being as aggressive they'd have been removed most likely.

She was appalling ..