So im asking for a little advice. Ive been with my new partner for 7 months now. We went 'official' on a certain date but opprox one month before i asked what would u consider to be cheating and when would we be at that stage. She said anything from intimate messaging and from now. So i see a line being drawn by her and honestly i hav never crossed it.
Ive been shown messages between her and another 2 guys of an intimate nature. Well absolut filth to be honest and also her telling people she was sleeping over these guys houses between the dates she set the line and us going official.
I feel shes cheated but she says we wernt together. She says nothing phsycal happened but after seeing the dirt they exchanged i find it hard to believe.
We have conversations which i say are not judgemental and no arguing over them and i worked all this out before someone showed me but she always denied it. She now slowly admits bits at a time.i love this girl more than words can describe which i believe is whats making it hurt so bad.
Am i right to feel cheated or do i need to give my head a shake. Who is or was in the wrong? Any opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks