In an ideal world of course everybody would get on with everyone else and - take people as we find them - and judge for ouselves etc etc.
Some people bring a lot of baggage, Ann, Jim Davidson, Ron Atkinson, etc etc and lots of people can't go, yeah well, you know, Nick Griffin, or Enoch Powell, they were lovely people in person, if you got to know them.
Some people, like Ann, have lived public lives spent telling other people how to live, politicians in government telling people how they are permitted to live by creating legislation.
Not unreasonably, some people have been affetced by that and aren't able to go = it's all water under the bridge, I know you didn't mean it - when you actually meant all of it.
Amanda - I'm in a civil partnership - you're not in a civil partnership.
A status, Amanda, that Ann would never in government have allowed you to have, and that you also wouldn't have been allowed to have if Gay Rights activists like Shane hadn't come out and campaigned so that you can have it while you were happily in the closet, they were being abused and queer-bashed on your behalf - still you don't need that sort of thing - dope.
Forgetting is what allows it all to happen again.