What did i miss re new nurse talking about an illegal secret? i just remember her asking Trixie what her secret was (as in dont we all have secrets? I just missed the illegal bit).
My grandmother was a nurse during WW2, she had my aunt and DM in 1949 and 1951. I think she went straight back to work, regardless, even if she did take time out she went back to work as a nurse as she retired in the 80s with a long and varied career behind her. I know she had a 'maiden' sister (who i suspect was gay as she had lots of female friends but never married - although she may have just never married). So the MA may have looked after my DM and aunt, but I also know that my DM had a close relationship with her own aunt (another of my grandmothers sisters) who never had children. Maybe both of the aunts looked after them.
The aunt who married and never had children had an emotional conversation with me once. She was sympathising with me when i had multiple miscarriages and a stillbirth. She had tears in her eyes when she was talking to me. The story was always that 'she never wanted children'. I saw in her eyes that day that was not the case. Off topic I know but it shows just how far we have come with emotional support etc 