this has just dawned on me whilst watching an episode of friends. I know they were actors and not together in RL but for some reason I don't think my brain ever accepted this all these years of watching the show. I was just watching an episode where they were kissing and I thought "ahh they really love each other" and then my brain went "no stupid, they're not actually together!" This is the first time I've ever acknowledged that. They were always just so natural together. I'm a bit sad now. 