I felt pressured into having cvs but as I don't have a peer reviewed research paper backing up my experience I'd imagine it has already been dismissed as I type this sentence. Denying women's lived experiences seems very unfeminist to me.
Hcp do say terrible things to patients, I've had some awful things said to me when I've not nodded and agreed or asked a question. I doubt I'm particularly unusual.
The nhs leaflet is fine as a general overview but it's not enough imho to make a decision about what to do regarding a wanted baby. I'd want proper stats regarding all the health conditions related to ds and ideally to speak to a consultant specialising in pediatric disability. A random midwife with a leaflet wouldn't cut it. Ime we were left in a room with a book and a leaflet whilst several hospitals were rung round to see who could fit me in for cvs asap. The urgency and perceived panic from hcp contributed to the pressure I felt under.
Nipt is great because women won't need to go through what I did. However women who don't want termination after a high risk result should be offered the same respect for their choice as the women that do. Hundreds of posts back everyone was up in arms that women's choices to terminate were being perceived as being questioned by a woman off the telly, but apparently it's a duty of care for a hcp to continually question a woman's choice to keep a child or refuse a medical procedure.
It's really disappointing that it feels this is now about intellectual point scoring and about being technically correct than listening to what other people have to say.