I don't think it has nothing to do with sex, but I think, it's not as sexual as it's origin's.
It looked like the UK was out of step with the rest of Europe in the contest, is what I meant.
I think certainly for the main person, in the program. He has been very lacking in self-confidence.
His ex built his confidence by excepting him wholeheartedly, with all his quirks. He's found his confidence in being a pup, and confidence with similar people.
With new found confidence he now exploring the world.
When he wasn't in costume, whilst talking to people, he was very uncertain of himself. Looked at the floor a lot, and in general seemed very nervous.
I felt sorry for him and his ex.