Leaving aside the fact that to a certain extent we're all being manipulated in our views by the edit of the show, I find some of all this really disturbing.
Since the start of the show, we have seen some appalling behaviour from Lady C. Absolutely jaw-droppingly shocking. The other camp-mates have responded by backing away and distancing themselves, as well as trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and being friendly and kind towards her when she has been nice or shown guts during trials and so forth. Some of those more viciously attacked by her have banded together, probably for defence. Yet THEY are the ones who are being criticised (in the media and, once or twice, on here) for bullying her??
I have no idea what Tony's motivation was for commenting on the beetle/fire issue. It's largely irrelevant. Even if he was trying to wind her up (and I personally doubt it), there are far worse crimes on there. But her abusive response was the one of the worst things I think I've ever seen. And I actually think that the ITV bosses should take her aside and give her a formal warning (and let it be known that that has happened, actually).That would send a very clear message to society as a whole (if the viewers are a representative bunch) that we do not tolerate or encourage that behaviour.
And whilst I think Tony did very well not to react to her tirade, I don't think I could have sat back and allowed the implied insult to my spouse to pass by unchallenged. I like to think I might have gone straight to the Bush Telegraph room and threatened to leave unless I got a retraction. No way Lady C would ever apologise, though.
Hideous, hideous woman. And as Keiron said, she has become indefensible.