YY, I do take your point soup, just think even that is quite a recent thing?
But of course you are right it'd have had a totally different connotation said to other people.
I am really enjoying that storyline in general, though. They've not gone down the schmaltzy route of having Patsy confide in the other midwives/the nuns and make them all terribly accepting, which I thought was a risk initially.
MrsDe - ah, but isn't that because you know the truth?! I know I am guessing and keep thinking, darn, was that plausible or am I just being daft?