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The Speakmans anyone?

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/07/2014 14:49

First time I've seen it. They look like Vegas counsellorsGrin

There's a woman who pulls her hair and I'm bawling my eyes out as they are really helping her Blush

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Scarletohello · 18/07/2014 18:44

Danni I'm very happy it worked for you and you got your life back. Are you able to identify what worked with your therapy with the Speakmans that hadn't worked when you had tried to get help previously?

Danniilonglegs · 18/07/2014 20:20

Thank you, i am very proud of my son and he continues to be a very special boy. He has finally got his mum back, the outgoing girl who wants to do everything with him. we have had days out at an amusement park, a zoo and even gone swimming! Everyone has their opinion on the Speakmans but i can say 100% if it wasnt for them, i would have ended up bald, in despair and would never have left the house! My son was suffering from me not going out anywhere and im just so pleased i now have a bright future ahead!

BearFeet · 18/07/2014 21:12

I loved today's, the girl who'd been attacked. You could see her face change, like they'd flicked a switch on her.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 19/07/2014 00:09

I know, the poor thing, she looked so much happier and she was so lovely.

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sallylouise95 · 19/07/2014 20:27

Danni I have seen your episode with the speakmans. I also suffer from trichotillomania. I pull my eyelashes, eyebrows. Everything really but my head hair. I am truly amazed at how they have cured you. I have been pulling for many many years. I am 19 and started pulling when I was about 3-4. Do you have any urges at all? Or has it just totally disappeared. I would do anything to not pull. Anything at all! I've tried hypnotherapy, CBT, physciatrist. I need to stop!

Danniilonglegs · 19/07/2014 21:51

Hi Sally! I understand your pain! Trich really ruins lives, i know it only too well! Ive no idea how this work on here but feel free to add me on FB or twitter and we can talk privately, do you use either? then i will give you details x

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 22/07/2014 21:01

I just wrote out a long post and it disappearedHmm

I watched the one about the woman with the dental phobia. I found it odd though that she hated her smile as you couldn't tell she had anything wrong, in fact she had a lovely smileConfused

I winced when they gave her veneers as that will certainly guarantee lots of future dentist visits. I wonder why they didn't patch up her existing teeth as they looked more than fine.

Yet again though the therapy worked, she was transformed. Amazing.

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efeslight · 24/07/2014 14:32

Have also been watching this, saw part of the episode with the girl who had been attacked, yesterday's shark phobia and am now watching the spider phobia lady - they seem to focus on the effect on the family more than I expected...am hooked at the moment and also intrigued by the therapists - have never seen them on anything before, and actually its quite nice to see some 'proper' Northerners on TV!

ssd · 24/07/2014 14:35

am watching the spider one its good

efeslight · 24/07/2014 14:36

she's got a box!!

Itsfab · 24/07/2014 19:04

I have watched all of them except the one about the lady who pulled her hair out. I couldn't watch that.

I watched the spider one today and think they have cured me Shock.

WienerDiva · 24/07/2014 19:16

Dannii, I'm so relieved to hear you say that, and you really are beautiful.

I "trich" differently to you, I pull my eyelashes and eyebrow hairs out (and then nibble them, don't judge me, sometimes I don't even know I'm doing it).

It's been going on since I was 11. I have to now spend hours every week putting on eyeliner and perfecting my bald eye brows.

I've tried pulling other hairs on my body, they just don't give the same satisfaction and it doesn't feel "right". I haven't watched the episode with you in yet (got it recorded though).

I don't know what's happened recently though but I haven't pulled as much so I'm treating myself to a set of eyelash extensions (wish they'd invent eye brow ones too)!

Anyway, thank you for allowing yourself to be filmed and bringing trichotilomania to the public eye.

Thank you thank you ThanksThanksThanksThanksThanks

Danniilonglegs · 25/07/2014 21:28

Itsfab why didnt you watch the hair pulling one?

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 25/07/2014 21:53

I watched the spider one. I think I'm ok with butterflies now,I am really phobic but I'm thinking about then differently now. I'll let you now when I actually see one our one flies in the house.Smile

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Danniilonglegs · 26/07/2014 19:55

WienerDiva i have sent you an inbox message :)

JennyGoldman · 29/07/2014 03:13

I know someone who is amazing and gets very fast results similar with the Speakmans (although different approaches) that no one else for years had really helped me (more managed) and he totally turned me around and did it mostly in one session and by skype seriously !
so the speakmans and like him can work quickly which to me would NEVER have believed being a suffer and would have said impossible - till now.

Let me explain I had emetophobia (big fear of being sick /seeing others) and also OCD for years and no one could help tried various people promising me they could a few so called top people n hypnotherapy NLP, Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) etc you name tried it .. Plus I was on medication depression with it.

Then I found someone utterly amazing who a similar with the Speakmans helps people in record time - yeah I know it sounds B. S .

The incredible part infact he did it all over a few tailor made sessions by skype I didn't even have to see him in person as he spends a lot of time in mostly LA and back and forward to the UK as and when.

So if you find it difficult to believe that the Speakmans can 'cure' anyone in such a short amount of time they probably can and very, very likely indeed. Which I would never have believed myself and own experience watching their show of late!

Infact having just ONE session with this other' miracle worker' I was virtually done and he insisted and wanted me to try things out in the my everyday world and then he checks in with you a few days later. And arranges the next session to cover anything else that comes up until I was happy and he asked me to identify if I could what did not work with your previous therapy and why ?

He is under the radar works mostly word of mouth (he does a lot of diverse things and a lot of work with celebrities and in Hollywood and sports figures and big companies) Infact I found out about him by luck because someone came back from LA who I got chatting with and they saw him with some celebrities and heard his British accent and got talking to him and offered to help her.

She had a serious phobia called Misophonia or sometimes called select sound sensitivity or 4s. People chewing food, playing with pens various things drive you into a rage - anways she had also tried everything like me, hypnosis, nlp, counseling, CBT and at her wits end. *Nothing really worked and she tried this guy Santini mentioned below from hearing how good and fast he was and she told me.

So yes the Speakmans I can well believe helps people very quicklyhow long it last no idea or they need a top up.^

For me it's been almost three years and I am seriously cured or as he says I cured myself it was just knowing how!

So, is he cheap to be honest nope, (but cheap compared though to what? As everything is all totally relative and personal value anways) and how he helped me, well for me was life changing. How can one put a price on that?

The downside he has a year waiting list and usually these days apparently can only maybe get to work with him and possibly 'jump the queue' if you're someone who is in genuine real need and deeply causing you almost daily kind of things big problems and affecting the quality of your life and others maybe around you.

I think Nick and Eva Speakmans are amazing what they do and the person who helped me I wanted to tell about! I do not want to just I feel credit only the Speakmans can essentially help people or capable of helping very tough cases and work fast. Besides their approaches are not for everyone or personality- I love them that's me!

Hence that said there are others out there like this great other guy so hey rather than say name drop him, try though this google search term: 'Santini phobias cure expert' should lead you to his info and so forth etc.

Maybe he can help as a possible alternative to the speakmans and oh such a likable nice down to earth unassuming person and very funny you laugh a lot in his sessions, he does a lot of hair pulling phobias... not sure what you call it! As someone called him saying how he helped them saying also no one else could while we were talking on skype I over heard them say to him and other folks or yes try to get to work with the fab Speakmans.

Good luck. hope it's been informative sorry for length I think these blogs are very useful to people.

Danniilonglegs · 30/07/2014 23:28

Great to hear Jenny! thanks for the info :)

Greyhound · 11/08/2014 13:13

The Speakmans are amazing. Cured my husband's serious phobia in an hour. They are lovely people, they really are.

gold14 · 16/04/2016 09:23

what thr name of the guy?

gold14 · 16/04/2016 09:24

hi danny do you have email?

Sparklingbrook · 16/04/2016 10:04

This thread is 2 years old!

SusieQ7 · 16/04/2016 18:23

It didn't work for me.... still got the phobia!

gold14 · 17/04/2016 10:09

have you tried any other therapy SusieQ7

SusieQ7 · 17/04/2016 13:29

Yes had hypnosis three times ... and I'm a therapist and can't cure myself lol !

Marieando444 · 24/09/2016 13:49

Hi danni could you tell me how much it cost you to meet with the speakmans? I am interested in meeting with them for my phobia thanks

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