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You're Killing My Son C4

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difficultpickle · 13/08/2013 21:10

Watching as I remember this news story. Rather surprised that both parents allowed a film crew to follow their son's progress and airing their views so publicly. I'm not sure I understand what they hope to gain from doing this.

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georgedawes · 15/08/2013 12:48

Did you watch the documentary? I thought it was clear that without the radiotherapy the tumour would return (as it did when she ran away with him). The only proven potential cure is the radio/chemo. Otherwise it would've killed him.

expatinscotland · 15/08/2013 12:53

'Is it wrong that she question a 'worldwide protocol' when an adult would be able to refuse treatment but a child can't?

No one could force me to vaccinate my child for example, so why should a court enforce the wishes of doctors over that of a parent? I wonder what would have been the leal position had both parents been in agreement about not having the further treatment.'

They would both have been taken to court and yes, very likely the child would be removed from their custody and given the treatment.

Because the issue is that there is no other viable treatment available for that form of brain cancer and so the child's death was a *certainty.

Not vaccinating is a different kettle of fish as this means the child may or may not contract a communicable disease and may or may not, if they do, survive it.

Not giving a child surgery/chemo/etc when they have medullablastoma means they will always die.

And a child cannot make a decision in the same way an adult does.

Paed cancer consultants do no work in vacuums, they work in teams, with other ones in the world.

Plenty of people have and do push for their children to receive funding for treatments in other countries where there are treatments known to be effective against certain types of cancer, usually relapsers, or can and do put their child forward for trials in the UK and abroad.

And, in certain cases, a parent can elect for the child to move directly to palliative care/no further treatment on the cancer itself.

enderwoman · 15/08/2013 14:47

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bruffin · 15/08/2013 19:19

Duelling You seem to forget this was not just the doctors. He had a father who also wanted him to have the treatment I think you will find on the cases of vaccines where one parents wants to vaccinate and the other doesn't the courts have sided with the pro vaccinating parent.From the case the mum did provide very poorly researched evidence for her case . One of the so called specialists couldn't even spell the name of the condition properly.

girliefriend · 16/08/2013 21:40

I have been thinking about this case again today and have come to the conclusion that the mum was just desperate to 'blame' something for causing her sons tumour because that gave her some sort of handle on it.

I think for her the fact that it is was just a terrible cruel twist of fate and there was nothing she or anyone else could do to prevent it was just too much for her to cope with.

From this pov (although in none of the subsequent decisions she made) I can sympathise with her.

DuelingFanjo · 17/08/2013 10:02

Government commits 250million to fund proton beam therapy.

Just wondering, some people have said that this treatment can't be used for the type of cancer Neon has, why is that?

waikikamookau · 17/08/2013 10:21

aside from the quack therapies she chose, and bob marley was the same, choosing unconventional homeopathic remedies for his cancer,
she said in the beginning of the programme It was Her Choice, as it was Her child.
it was strange how the programme was made, during the court process and what not.
quite an inconclusive programme as well,
poor Neon and Electra Sad

waikikamookau · 17/08/2013 10:22

and that Netting over his bed,
that is scandalous, there are vultures out there, preying on people who will pay enough for their ridiculous promises

DuelingFanjo · 17/08/2013 10:25

I think it was inconclusive because she pulled out of filming early on and without her and her 'fight', and given that it was called 'you're killing my son' so about her, there was probably no relevant footage.

AKissIsNotAContract · 17/08/2013 10:26

bob marley was the same, choosing unconventional homeopathic remedies for his cancer

That's not true. Bob Marley went to Europe for chemo but he'd left it too late and it had metastasized by that point.

Davros · 17/08/2013 13:57

I don't know but maybe he tried the alternative stuff first and that's why it was too late?

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