Sorry...no I'm back.
I wish we had more Andy's in this world. Don't listen to the backstabbers.
I help a retired friend and have done for years. I take her out in the car a lot. One neighbour seemed to think I had ulterior motives 
She said to my friend, "What about her (my) husband?! What does he have to say about you going out all the time?"
When I heard this I said "Tell her we only got married...we didn't get glued together!" 
Seems you've embarassed some neighbours Andy for not getting there first. 