my big fat fetish

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Oh. My. God.

Her poor son having to wash and clean her every day.....dont think he'll be getting a gf anytime soon....poor lad

She is mahoosive.....
Im sitting here asking the dog if im that big

I am shaking my head

I'm missing this - are they all large ladiew with skinny blokes? Not the other way around?

I bet restaurateurs rub their hands with glee if they see that lot rocking up!

Is ithere a reason why all the feeders seem to be male and the gainers female? Or is it just the reporting?

Eeewwww!

Not if its a fixed price 'all you can eat buffet'.

You can tell that the young girl is so not into it. Poor girl if that is the only way she can try to feel good about herself.

Blond girl actually has a lovely face.

This has to be an ED and therefore a mental health issue. I fear for these women - it's like they have pushed a self destruct button

Patty must be in so much physical pain. :( I know a woman who got to around that size (and I like and respect her very much - her background was more fucked up than you can begin to imagine and she did well to survive at all) and the things she told me - huge pain just on standing, needing help with washing and cleaning herself after using the loo, terrifying sleep apnea. Awful way to live.

I'm overweight, don't hate myself for it, and for mental health reasons am prioritising general health and fitness over weight loss. I know people smaller than me who get weight loss surgery and it really freaks me out - the idea of permanently fucking with my digestive tract is very scary to me. Much scarier than being a bit fat. But the day my poor daughter has to wipe my arse because I can't reach it myself is the day I ask for a gastric bypass. We all might end up in the role of carer to a parent, but I could never wilfully do that to her.

She just says that she is the way she is to please male partners. Poor woman.

Her poor son.

Quote of the night - they say it's like reverse anaorexia but its not, thats an eating disorder. People do it because they feel insecure ???? WTAF !!
Surely thats why they are doing it, because ut makes them feel attractive to men.
The poor son too, he is so misrable surely her role as a mum should men she changes for her son.
I was watching this for a laugh but i just feel a bit sad now.

Bed sores.
Phwoarrr!

Patty does come across as being unhappy but I guess she is trapped in a cycle where if she lost weight she'd lose her fans and her income although she might gain more independence

Do they find the smell a turn on too? Because I'm not being funny, it would be hard to stop fungal infections etc under folds like that.

That thing about the bed sores made me sad too. I mean, a preference for a body type is one thing, but all this about the gory details of being very fat makes it more of a gross-out fetish in my book. Who wants people to get off on how disgusting they find you?? Don't care if they like it, it's still unpleasant in my book. Where's the human respect in that?

Sorry mumsnetters, I just have to say it......OMG!

(Er, did I say 'in my book' enough there? Better have another one for good measure...)

I think Patty is living in a motel?? It showed the son leaving to get food and I think it was just a motel room with bathroom. But I suppose if you can't walk then you only need one room!

I think this is going to be horrible...

this is vile

Horrendous

How has she not thrown up?? I would feel like hell after that!