ConfuddledDOTcom Go back and re-read every word I've said here and you will see that I have never anywhere claimed to know what it's like to go through what a bereaved mother does and it is disingenuous of you to imply that I have, simply to suit your own argument.
I have no doubt whatsoever that you don't care a jot what anyone has to say, let alone want to hear it but there is no need to be downright rude to people who have not been rude to you.
It's a matter of common courtesy.