I shouldn't watch this programme.
Or more specifically, I shouldn't watch it and then read the threads on here.
Saying things like 'get a grip' or 'fgs' about a labouring woman is utterly nasty. A woman's labour experience is her own and actually, while I think a lot of Steph's experience was down to poor support and motivation, telling a woman how she should experience labour is rude and unfair. Saying she should feel embarrassed makes me want to cry. Because I didn't cope with labour at all (despite hypnobirthing and a home waterbirth with an attempted upright, active 8hr second stage) and while I didn't scream, I sobbed and sobbed with pain and to this day feel utterly ashamed of myself. I couldn't handle it and God I tried.
Why the bloody hell do I read these threads? 
I'm sorry to rant. I'm an idiot.