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So Tony or Lucy (casulty/holby city?)

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misdee · 27/08/2005 21:15

tony.

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Beabea · 27/08/2005 21:16

Tony

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:19

i shouldnt have watched.

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misdee · 27/08/2005 21:24

why did i identify with tony? he has a family, and so much more to give, and its heart disease. plus i know the odds on heart transplants succeeded are better than heart and lung transplants. i felt so bad phoning for tony.

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WestCountryLass · 27/08/2005 21:26

I voted Lucy

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:27

next time anything like this is shown either tell m not to watch ot get a box of tiussues 1st.

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misdee · 27/08/2005 21:28

i also didnt like lucy's dad attitude tho could understand it, as i felt resentful last week when i learned that a lad had had his transplant a shirt whilke earlier.

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Weatherwax · 27/08/2005 21:31

Hopefully it has persuaded more of us to donate so that we dont have to choose. You know the chances of sucess better than most of us Misdee don't feel bad about voting for Tony

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:32

i know people are uneasy bout donating, but over 400 people died last year waiting. those people could've been saved.

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WestCountryLass · 27/08/2005 21:34

Well I went online and registered.

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:35

yay!!

i was asked by channel 4 producer the other day why i was agreeing to be filmed. i replied 'to get more people on the list'

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golds · 27/08/2005 21:35

Its a subject Ive never discussed before, I had some of the worries like many that Prof Winston described. The show was enlightening and me and dh have discussed the subject really for the first time and both have agreed to join the register.

I am sure many others will be having the same thoughts tonight.

I do find it bad though that it is still down to the next of kin to decide, that man clearly wanted to donate but nearly didn't get the chance

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:35

the register not the list.

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misdee · 27/08/2005 21:36

golds that has actually happened to us. the week before Peters LVAD op, there was a chance of a heart, on paper it looked good, but the donor family stopped it. offically we arent meant to know, but we do.

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WestCountryLass · 27/08/2005 21:40

Oh Misdee, how soul destroying. I do think people should have to opt out rather than opt in really.

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:42

should be opt out, and pleas eplease if you do register, discuss it with your family ande make your wishes clear!

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Wallace · 27/08/2005 21:42

This is something we discussed around the time dd had her heart surgery (not transplant, but makes you realise...)

Luckily this is something we agree on for both ourselves and the children, but the programmes recently have reminded me that we haven't actually signed up on the register - must do!

golds · 27/08/2005 21:43

I did think about Peter as I was watching it.

Probably missed something as I am not always around, you mentioned Chn 4, are you appearing in a documentary or something ?

Just tried to register on line but internet playing up will call instead

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:45

we are being filmed starting next month, following our luives on 'the list'. they will follow us about for approx 6months, and will see the highs and lows. we are hoping to have a happy ending in time for the filming schedule, it would be so nice to come out of the other end of all this. and for people to see the change it has on our lives would be tremendous.

we almost lost peter this week, he had a very bad infection which set his ICD off 5 times in one day.

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misdee · 27/08/2005 21:47

register here

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sparklymieow · 27/08/2005 21:47

I watched it with DH and I said Lucy. We have discussed it and now DH knows my wishes to be a donor, though at first he said he wouldn't give premission, but then he said that he would, after I said that it was my body and my decision. He doesn't want to be a donor and that is his choice

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:49

A BBC survey for its DoNation season has revealed that a massive 90% of UK adults are in favour of organ donation. But, an astonishing 51% said they had never even discussed this important subject with those close to them. DoNation, from Monday 22 to Saturday 27 August, aims to get this subject out of the closet once and for all.

The survey uncovered further surprising information about the UK?s attitude towards organ donation and transplantation... Most people vastly over-estimated the number of organ transplants carried out last year with a third believing it to be 7,708 which is, in fact, the number of people in the UK who need a transplant (data from UK Transplant, May 2005). Due to a shortage of donors only 2,724 organ transplants were carried out last year. But, two out of three people questioned said that they would accept an animal?s organ if their life depended on it and if it was medically possible.

The survey asked why people hadn?t joined the NHS Organ Donor Register and almost half (45%) said they hadn?t really thought about it. A third (30%) of respondents wanted to but hadn?t got round to it; and 13% said they?d like to sign up but didn?t know how.

Of the one in ten who did not wish to donate their organs, the survey highlighted various misconceptions:

Over half said that they didn?t want their body to be experimented on after their death
A third believed they were too old or unwell for their organs to be of any use
A fifth were concerned that doctors wouldn?t fight as hard to save them if they knew they wished to be a donor, or feared that they might not really be dead if and when the decision is made to take their organs
A quarter felt it would be tempting fate if they now made the decision to join the register
In fact, all these concerns are incorrect and unfounded but it does show that there are inaccuracies in people?s perception of what organ donation involves.

Professor Robert Winston, who presents some of the programming, commented: ?DoNation aims to address these issues so that people are able to make a properly informed decision about whether to join the Organ Donor Register . It?s not easy to get people to address their own mortality but statistically we are more likely to need a transplant than to donate an organ so I hope this season will get more people thinking and talking about this important subject.?

There is a startling lack of knowledge about the human body amongst some people as 17% did not know that the cornea is found in the eye. And a quarter didn?t know what the kidneys do - 3% believe this vital organ helps improve a person?s sex drive!

Six out of ten respondents believe there should be a change in the law to an opt-out system. This would mean that everyone in the UK is automatically considered a potential donor unless they have specifically registered that they do not wish to be.

Read more about the opt in/opt out debate

When asked about their own organs, over half (54%) of those questioned said they were most concerned about their heart. The lungs were the main worry for one in six. Of these, unsurprisingly, over half were smokers but - in what might be a growing sign of the times - just over one in 10 expressed concerns about the effect of pollution on their lungs.

DoNation on the BBC aims to raise awareness by explaining the facts and dispelling the myths about organ donation and transplantation. It aims to enable people to make an informed decision about whether they wish to donate their organs in the event of their death and highlight the importance of making family and friends aware of this decision. For those who would like further information or decide they would like to add their name to the NHS Organ Donor Register, the BBC is providing a variety of routes, via phone - 0800 068 8456, web ? bbc.co.uk/donation , and interactive red button.

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pindy · 27/08/2005 21:52

Tony was who I voted for.

golds · 27/08/2005 21:53

registered, thanks for link

SleepyJess · 27/08/2005 21:54

I voted Lucy but then I am heavily biased as DS has CF. Nightmare situation that I dread.

misdee · 27/08/2005 21:55

it is about who you identified with the most i think, and tbh i wouldnt want to be in that situation. and i hope your ds doesnt have to be in the psoition for a long long time sleepyjess. i never thought at the age of 25 my dh would be waiting for a new heart.

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