We currently have my dh's 15 yo brolther living with us, temp at the moment but hoping for it to become permanent after meeting with social services next month.
He's had quite a troubled upbringing, and has been in a care home for 3 months before we could get him down here. He continually absconded from teh care home and was told staying with us is his last chance or he goes into a secure unit.
Trouble is, he's still disappearing for long periods. He wanted to stay at a friends house, so we asked for phone number to cjheck with the boys parents that it was ok, he said he'd get it but just went out and didn't come back til 8am the next morning.
He's just done it again, went out with his mates and just didn't come home, my dh was out looking for him at 3am. He finally turned up at 11am today, shouted at me to get out of his way. I told him he doen;t speak to me ike that, and that he was totally out of order staying out all night. He said he didn't know our phone numbers.
He's gone out again in a strop, don't know where, and don't really know what to do for the best when he gets back.
He doesn't even come back for meals, and refuses to help around the house, just sit on the laptop all day or is out with his mates.
Any advice would be appreciated.