first of all I realse I sound pathetic......
DD13 has come home upset because of couple of girls have said some stuff about her being "good" friends with a boy....I know we have all been through it but how do I cope with the horrible feelings I have??? the desperate urge to make everything "right" for her and she shouldnt suffer any upset or trauma in life - how do I stop these feelings or at least cope with them....
On a similar note how do you cope with your kids getting older and boys and stuff....I want everything to stop now, with me in control stopping all the badness....
She seems ok and we have had a chat about it