I am a mother of two boys that are 8 yrs apart but my oldest is starting to get uncontrollable. He rushes through things at home when it comes to chores. Refuses to do things correctly and I’m constantly having to go behind him and do it right. He gets wooped for the bullying and 15 min later acts like nothing is wrong. His behavior in school is even getting bad with the bullying and cussing teachers out. What do I do? Any advise???