Realistically she needs to role play at home. The same roles can be used everytime. Slap on a smile and get good at saying hello. It’s shit but navigable and mustn’t be seen as an impossibility. It’s just another thing you can learn and maybe have to for a society that sales the socially proactive.
Make sure everyone has a seat/can see each other, bring people in who are excluded.
Be responsive and encouraging.
If not name tagged ask people to share their names. Remember 5 and use them. Remember three talkative people as you will be able to respond to them - that’s a fun idea Susan, would you also…? And a couple of quiet people so you can try to involve them. - looks like you might agree with that David, what did you think of…
She can be the facilitator - this is interesting - anyone like to start off?
she could be a responder - I really like that idea
the developer - that’s a great idea and could also be used to…
the includer … you look like you might have something to share -
the opposer - I like those ideas but really think that we need more of a …
The organiser - some still haven’t had a chance to contribute so let’s just make space to check in round the group
Even if she has nothing to say the more she responds and praises or asks further questions the more she stands out.