bullying by girl and her mother

[ditzyprincess]

my daughter is being bullied by a girl at school but this girl has convinced her mum its the other way round and now this 40 something mum is threatening my daughter and now me !? up till now i have ignored her as i think she will get off on a reaction from me but its getting to be very irritating with prank calls etc what can i do can anyone suggest a solution?

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Police?

Why is it pertinent that the mother is 40-something?

Speak to school. Be aware that the school may have seen another side that is not apparent to you. If the Mum is actually threatening you or your dd with violence, then make sire the police know about it.

sorry bridie3 im 40 something too and i simply meant to say i thought the mother was being the child

Oh! I see what you mean now--I thought you might be a very, very young mum feeling intimidated by us old forty-somethings (I'm 44).

ditzy - I think you have to tell the school what is going on.

For starters, they will know who is the bully at school, and will be able to sort that side of things out.

IF this woman continues to bully you and your daughter, you should contact the police, it is harrassment and you have done nothing to deserve it. It is against the law.

Good luck.

xx

Don't you just wonder why some people DO this stuff? What joy do they get out of it?