Single teen parent, I tend to give them a free rein.. on holiday right now. I asked my 14 yr old what the secrecy was on his phone/ipad (he’s practically attached to it) he refused to show me - was overly guarded so I confiscated devices. He had a shower and afterwards decided to give him the opportunity to disclose what he was looking at/watching and he remained completely closed to this 🤷🏼♀️ so I’ve kept them. I feel bad but I’m also concerned he’s so secretive.. should I be worried! Never had reason to think he was up to something but I am concerned he’s so guarded.