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Skipping school

11 replies

Marei · 12/05/2025 11:55

How do you deal with a 12 yo that skips school. Regardless of having moved from parent to parents, tried grounding ect. Just not interested. I'm at my wits end.

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sunshineandshowers40 · 12/05/2025 11:58

What sanctions are school putting in place? Do you know why they are skipping, they may not have a reason but if they do, start there. It's hard.

Marei · 12/05/2025 14:17

Simply because he doesn't like the teacher. Or think being influenced by friends. Yes it is hard. Missed 3 periods today! Had school on phone. Only in year 1.

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sunshineandshowers40 · 12/05/2025 14:54

He is in Y1, I thought he was a teenager. What are school doing? What are his triggers? How is his behaviour at home? Any SEN? I assume you have met with school and they have a plan around reasonable adjustments. Are they applying for an EHCP?

Marei · 12/05/2025 19:09

I have met with school,he has ADHD, but refuses to go said appointment. Home behaviour is very up and down. He has 3 sisters,2 older 1 younger. Only boy in the family, I've tried everything,he's been hard work since a baby,not getting any support from anyone apart from my sister whom is so great. My rock!

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TheFunnyPinkWriter · 12/05/2025 19:15

Primary Year 1 like he is 5-6 years old or Secondary Year 1 like he is 11-12?

Comedycook · 12/05/2025 19:17

What are they doing while they should be at school?

I'd ban all tech by the way while he's doing this.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/05/2025 19:17

TheFunnyPinkWriter · 12/05/2025 19:15

Primary Year 1 like he is 5-6 years old or Secondary Year 1 like he is 11-12?

The OP clearly said he is 12, so obviously first year of secondary.

EduCated · 12/05/2025 19:17

OP says in the first post he is 12, so first year of senior school.

DiaryofWimpy · 12/05/2025 19:23

Copious amounts of meetings with the school. A part time time table of classes he “liked”

Im so pleased we are past that stage now it was an awful time 😢

Marei · 13/05/2025 07:57

TheFunnyPinkWriter · 12/05/2025 19:15

Primary Year 1 like he is 5-6 years old or Secondary Year 1 like he is 11-12?

Yeah almost 13. Never got home till 10pm last night, and not getting ready for school this morning. It is brutal tbh, trying not to lose my s*! After getting told to f... Off last night..... Again! 🙄

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FunScroller · 13/05/2025 16:35

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