This might be outing but I'm desperate to know what to do. It's been up and down since almost day one. I fear he likes her more than she him. He's convinced he must save the relationship all costs. She's at work and he's gone over to her house to drop off his beautiful valentine gifts. Personalised thoughtful things. My heart is breaking for him.
I have to just be here don't I ? He wants to see her mum and tell her to get her daughter to not ditch him. She told him she wants it to end yesterday but he's begged for a second chance. He can't accept she's saying it's over. I've threatened to block his phone by reporting it stolen. We were awake consoling him until early hours. He was sick with the upset. I'm deeply concerned for his wellbeing. He's seeing a counsellor. Do I take him to GP ? He just keeps saying they can make it work. It's his first girlfriend. He has a levels and in real danger of a crisis and messing up. It's breaking me. Please don't come at me with how he can't force it etc. I know this. But it's hard to physically and digitally keep them apart if she hasn't yet officially said it's finished. I think he's better than being dangled on this string but is so besotted he'll do anything to keep her. Young love hits hard but is so hard to know what to do. I'm peri with ageing parents and am so tired and very anxious. I'm on antidepressants and fear he's I got the worst of my genes tonight. Can't see his worth and be dignified and bow out. It's so so hard. Anyone got a hand hold or advice/ experience? I don't want to push him away