My daughter had a boyfriend for around 2 years age 15/16, he seemed lovely initially and his parents were pretty neglectful so he spent a lot of time with our family. It's a long story but basically he was manipulative and controlling plus we think he threatened our daughter, she won't tell us the full story but something happened which deeply affected her. They broke up 2 years ago (he is now a she!) She hasn't had a boyfriend since.
She just met a chap at university but she is freaked out because he has the same accent as her ex. They have only been on one date but she was crying tonight saying she can't see him again because of his voice. Should I encourage her to see him or not?
She needs psychological help but it is proving difficult to get her to agree to it.