Looking for advice please! DS 15 is on school holidays (Scotland) and was very into playing rugby at school, but is now talking about giving it up. I want him to have something extra-curricular, but he doesn't see why it's important. He is popular with friends and has a GF. I see his friends having hobbies and just think it's important for mental health and enjoyment. But I don't want him to think I'm disappointed in him, and I don't want to compare him to his friends. May not be relevant but we are both being assessed for ADHD. I held myself back from things at his age, and really believe that when he's nervous, it's stopping him from taking part, but that he is missing out.
Any advice please?