My 14 year old DS has always been very quiet. Rarely starts a conversation and answers in as few words as possible. Also has nervous tics. He is difficult to get any information out of at the best of times.
I have become aware he is accessing a lot of Femboy material on TikTok and several messages have gone between him and his friends asking if he is gay? A Femboy etc? He manages to not answer these questions directly.
I dont mind what he is as long as he is happy but should I approach him to talk about this and make sure he knows he can be whatever he wants to be. Or should I wait for him to approach me (which may never happen).