Hi,
I'm struggling with my daughter who is 14 the hormones have well and truly kicked in and everything seems to be going down hill.
She has deteriorated in school with the attitude and work ethic. Since starting in sept she has had 2 lunch detentions and two afterschool detentions! 😞(she didn't go to the lunch time ones!) Her effort grades have slipped and now she has scored a 2 in two subjects.
She lyes a lot and sneaks stuff even when told not too. Her attitude to us is awful. Also she has been caught vaping. Swears that she doesn't do it anymore and now one of my younger one has found a cigarette hidden in her room! So she has clearly hidden it in their room instead of hers. We have done the whole grounding thing and loss of phone etc but nothing works!!
Please has anybody got any suggestions or help I just don't know what to do next?
Thanks Jo x