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To now be worried my nearly 19 year old is dating a girl in early pregnancy!

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Meltinthemiddle · 16/09/2023 17:55

I've posted on here before, lots of issues last few years with him going off the rails and generally hanging out with dysfunctional people. Now he is seeing a girl who looks alot older (he says she is 19) who I know is pregnant. DS denies this but I have seen her FB (she friend requested me I think so D's could DM me when his phone died)
I didn't accept as didn't see it until late plus he's only been seeing her 3 days! I've seen on her posts she is pregnant less then 12 weeks. So either he is lying or he doesn't know as he hasn't added her to FB from what I can see. Now I am not against him dating a single parent, but I just worry this girl has issues as do alot of his friends. Then baby is just another person to worry about. It's early days, so who know if it will get that far but obviously I am concerned especially when he can't even look after himself and all the other shit he is involved with.

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continentallentil · 16/09/2023 19:27

It’s not ideal but it probably won’t last.

Try not to worry about that too much. I hope he’s making some progress. It’s very tough parenting wayward young adults.

Foggyfoggyfoggy · 16/09/2023 19:30

Imo he is lying about the relationship time scale...yikes op.

Holly03 · 16/09/2023 19:33

Is there a chance this is his baby? Very complicated situation if not. I think he will be leaving that relationship quickly when the bump gets bigger and baby arrives

Meltinthemiddle · 16/09/2023 19:51

No she is definitely new and it's been 3 days.

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Meltinthemiddle · 16/09/2023 19:52

I suppose I don't have to worry about him getting her pregnant

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