Dd14 has weed and left house

[creaamontop]

My dd14, who is hanging about with a pot head, has clearly got weed in her possession as it stinks. She's done her usual, verbally abusive, defensive performance this morning when I've pulled her up on it and left the house. She threatened not to come home after school and I said that was appropriate as she's not bringing drugs into my house and I'd call her dad. I also didn't give her a lift to school as I said I wasn't chauffeuring her there with drugs. There was no way she'd admit it so without getting into a physical scrap with her, what else could I do?

I don't want to get her done with possession, that's hardly going to help her in life so I'm loathe to tell the school. What would you do today? I don't think shes daft enough to do anything catastrophic. She's been told she'll lose her horse if she does drugs so there are clear consequences that she's aware of. It's more the short term I'm concerned about

School were very helpful when my DS had a short spell of this. We didn’t know what to do, but they were very supportive.

of course tell the school - how are they supposed to teach her or take responsibility for her stoned. She might get expelled, but if she is taking drugs onto the school premises, she needs to be

You have to tell the school, because they are going to smell it anyway- just like you can!

I've emailed the school, you're right she needs caught every time she's doing this type of thing to make it seem not worth it

Honestly feel like it's getting worse especially with Dab pens.

I have had issues with my dd and several kids at her school.