I am looking for some advice on how to handle my 13yr old DD. I had to pick her up today from a local park as she had fallen over. When I collected her, I realised she had been drinking. Found out that she had taken a full bottle of gin from home. Was only last week I found her with a vape in her bedroom….following on from her poor behaviour in school, and bouts of lying and stealing money from home. I have tried to talk to her to find out if there is an underlying issue but she won’t talk to me. I am at my wits end, I go down the route of discipline by taking away her phone and stopping her going out with her mates etc as well as going through the dangers and trying to explain why I don’t want her doing this stuff, but once it’s over within a few weeks she just goes back to her usual ways! Any advice??