I think I've dropped a clanger. I sold some books online and noticed one of them was going to the same road that my 15 y old daughters schoolfriend, A lives on (about an hour away - they're both about 30 mins drive from school). Anyway the book (its music, not the karma sutra, btw) is going to her next door but 1 neighbour and thought A could post it as she passes tomorrow on her way home from school. My daughter checked with her and A was happy to do it. All good. Then I mentioned the coincidence to my OH tonight, who said it was grubby, using a kid as Royal Mail and if i was A's parents, I'd not be impressed. I was a bit upset, and he backpedalled, but still said it was out of order. I could just post this thing, but I dont want A thinking I didnt trust her, and my daughter said she'd not be fazed if A's mum gave her post for our neighbour - it seems like a logical thing to do. Now I'm over thinking it!!!