our lovely dd has been getting more isolated from us. On sun she left a note and ran off to her friends house for a few nights to think things through. Friend 17 is having hormones to be a man. Dd threatened the same. She wears a breast binder. They are going out together and there is much subterfuge and lies. We’ve never said anything as far as we are aware, dd onv thinks differently.
Yesterday Dh told his sister who livesabroad and she has immediately cancelled them all coming to stay tomorrow. She doesn’t want her 14 dd to be influenced as she is going out with a girl.
it’s so sudden, we’ve been excited for months. She’s telling her dd it’s due to strikes. What do I tell mine?
do I say strikes or do I tell the truth - it’s a consequence of you leaving us a note and running off.
it’s been horrible and now what should have been fun is depressing and there’s also no reason for dd to come back now when she finds out.
also what do I do with dd?!
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Sil cancelled visit as our dd wants to be a man.
Moomoola · 16/12/2022 07:34
MolliciousIntent · 16/12/2022 07:48
I'm with your SIL tbh, there's no way I'd expose a lesbian 14yr old DD to the risk of social contagion. It's sad for you, but definitely the right choice.
HowDoYouOwnDisorder · 16/12/2022 07:52
It is sad that young lesbians now often thing there is something wrong with them and they hate being a woman
Maybe I am interpreting it wrong though
But no idea if there is social contagion?! That seems far fetched?!
MolliciousIntent · 16/12/2022 07:48
I'm with your SIL tbh, there's no way I'd expose a lesbian 14yr old DD to the risk of social contagion. It's sad for you, but definitely the right choice.
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MolliciousIntent · 16/12/2022 07:48
I'm with your SIL tbh, there's no way I'd expose a lesbian 14yr old DD to the risk of social contagion. It's sad for you, but definitely the right choice.
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