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Found disgusting video on dds phone

9 replies

Piscesmumma1978 · 15/09/2022 07:22

On Snapchat in the ‘for your eyes only’ section. She used her dob as the password so very easy.

it was obviously a man pleasuring himself and you could only see that. 3/4 videos. She said her friend told him to message him. I’ve deactivated Snapchat and have her phone now.

I’m considering her having a basic phone. No social media and my password on app store.

wwyd? I hate all of this. Social media is ruining our kids. I’ll have another talk with her later.

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Soubriquet · 15/09/2022 07:23

How old is she?

BigSandyBalls2015 · 15/09/2022 07:23

How old?

Piscesmumma1978 · 15/09/2022 07:25

Sorry, I should have said. She’s 14.

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Bootsandcat · 15/09/2022 07:28

so your daughter’s friend asked the man (is he underage?) to send wanking videos to your (underage?) daughter?

I would: talk to the friends parents, talk to the school, and then talk to the police

getting her a non smart phone is a good idea

Piscesmumma1978 · 15/09/2022 07:33

I’m not sure how that all worked yet. I’ll find out more later and will speak to the girls mum if it’s necessary.

They all have an app called wink. It looked like tinder where you swipe through people and add them to Snapchat. They’re meant to be the same age. I removed that when I saw it.

Snapchat also has your exact location on it. I think I need to calm down a bit before I speak to her again.

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Redqueenheart · 15/09/2022 08:13

Report to the police and also inform the parents of your daughter's friend.

Either the friend was making a stupid joke by sending her this material or they are both potentially being groomed by this man.

Piscesmumma1978 · 15/09/2022 08:22

Annoyingly in my anger I deleted and deactivated her account so it’s all gone.

I’m going to speak to her later to find out more.

I’m sick of phones and the trouble they bring 🥹

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crochetcrazy1978 · 15/09/2022 08:33

I had issues with my daughter and Snapchat. I deleted the account and took her phone. She just created a new account on her friends phones and accessed it froM their phones. It's impossible to police I feel your pain

Piscesmumma1978 · 15/09/2022 09:29

It’s so frustrating isn’t it. She thought she was being clever by having it under a password.

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