My dd (16) takes part in ice skating. It’s expensive and now costing more and more. She also wants to be out with her friends, which costs even more. I desperately want to spend some money on the house. (We have no flooring, bare brick work, need an electrician in etc. But, just feel like a Teri or parent saying I can’t keep trying to pay for everything. Please talk some sense into me as my depression is spiralling.