Are birthday holidays a thing for mid teens?
Not that I plan to do one. But one of my dd's (who has asd), said all her birthdays have been shit and this is what she feels she deserves to do as a treat.
I was like 
Last few years we usually go on family day out to something she enjoys like go ape or adventure park or activity centre and the dc's can bring a friend.
Then we have take away and birthday cake with extended family.
I dont think i can afford a holiday at all this year, let alone one as a birthday treat!!!