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DD 15 sex and sexy imagines online

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Kidsdub · 21/03/2021 11:32

I need advice re DD15 just 15. Last month we took her phone to check it as normal and found sexy imagines, nudes sent to boys and explicit texts to say she slept with a boy to a friend. I was furious and she admitted it
We grounded her and took her phone off her she said if we went to the boys parents she would kill herself. I spent time talking to her about boys about images online ect she was so open about things and I was like ok a mistake has happened let's move on. Then I found another phone she had hidden from us she said a friend gave her and she was again posting sexy images and talking to boys about meeting up a having sex. Like with lockdown she bearly been out but it appears every opportunity she is she is seeking out to meet boys. I know she desperately wants a boyf. I have her in counselling now as she said she wanted to talk to someone and is very confused. But my DH wants to at least for a year give her no phone and keep her where we can see her. I'm not sure about this as & feel she may further rebel. I feel like putting her on contraception but after finding a text saying to a boy if she was she could freely have sex. So I really don't know what to do.

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Everythingiswonderful · 21/03/2021 13:02

I have no clue what to suggest, it’s all so worrying for you.
I do think you are right that, if your DH goes through with his 12 month punishment, she will rebel further and your relationship could be damaged forever.
Just bumping in case someone can come and offer some advice.

SuperPixie247 · 21/03/2021 13:27

I would put her on contraception. Teenagers will have sex and at least you can make sure she is protecting herself against pregnancy. Maybe something like an implant so she doesn't have to remember to take a pill every day?

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