Can her friends do a drive by birthday parade? Have seen lots of people just drive by, wave, honk their horn, have a procession basically of her friends and family all at once
So she can ‘see’ them but it’s all safe?
Video messages
Any themes she’d like? A friend did a Parisian theme for example, French themed breakfast with champagne and chocolates, playing petanque, watching moves set in France.
Cocktail making would be great
Any games you can play in the evening?
At home Spa day with some new fancy products
A balloon arch or any sort of backdrop - presuming she’s into SM and will want to take some nice photos. You can get flower walls or lots of balloon options on Amazon, string light walls etc
Would she like if you booked in some zooms with family members?
Could you do disposable cameras so she can find fun moments in the day to be put into an album later
What about any at home boxes - diy donuts, candles, chocolate truffle kits
I’d maybe spread activities, gifts and surprises through the day so it feels different from ever other day in lockdown
Start big and end big with a few nice little things throughout the day to keep her busy
Do you know what she drinks? You could do a little wine tasting for example
Or cocktails I would go with espresso martini, and then something like a pornstar martini or daiquiri, but it depends on dd tastes - she may be more of a gin girl, so you can tailor accordingly