DS 14 comes back from his dads usually very grumpy and quite cuddly with me. Me and his dad split when he was 7. His dad wasn’t really about work, trips abroad and never took time off in school holidays. I don’t think anything untoward is happening so just think it’s a change he never says he doesn’t want to go and sometimes asks to go. He goes once a month due to his dads commitments his dads choice not ours. Just wondered how others manage ect.